Struggling to establish your couple's practice?
Worried about income and surviving the competition?
Exhausted with so many clients near breaking point?
Longing for more clients who are motivated to learn?
Concerned about increasingly high divorce rates and the impact on the next generation?
Increase your income.
Increase and vary your client base.
Enjoy a welcome contrast to the heavier work of couples therapy. Attract motivated couples
Expand beyond state lines - it can be delivered online and is educational.
Build your reputation. Marriage prep clients are quick to refer you and are your potential clients for life.
To keep growing, offer a "Part 2", - and/or follow-up booster courses.
Cate has strategically designed a complete system for you to implement with couples in the early stages of relationship commitment.
It’s a complete service that will benefit a large niche market of couples who want to start on the right foot
but often have nowhere to turn to for customised help.
This unique course is designed for them - the pre-assessment tool helps you focus on each person's specific needs.
It's a perfect Marriage Prep Course but also can be more broadly used as a Couples's Skills Intensive. It's also a great support structure for pre-marriage counselling sessions, i.e. six hourly sessions.
Offer a Part 2. Part 1 and 2 equate to a couples skills intensive in working hours! There is ample material to support 6 hours.
Offer periodic review courses. Some clients like an annual review or marriage enhancement course.
Check if you can register as a marriage prep clinician with local churches or authorities. Many offer incentives for completing a marriage prep course.
Include aspects of this course with your regular clients. Couples can benefit from these foundational skills before or alongside the more difficult counselling work.
Advertise this Course through anything wedding, couple related ....like dating sites, wedding websites, magazines for couples, etc - see my advertising bullet points for more guidance.
Teach them skills they didn't learn growing up.
Help nip potential issues in the bud before they become entrenched and destructive.
Help them break any negative family cycles.
Help them create family stability for their children to pass down to the next generation.
It's the prime time to give good relationship guidance - It saves them from heaps of trouble down the road.
"Couples who attend Pre Marriage courses enjoy happier marriages than those who don’t. They’re also less likely to separate or get divorced”.
May have specific issues to work through before deepening
their commitment.
Want to ensure they develop good skills and insights to create a strong
and lasting relationship.
Might be ambivalent about commitment.
Might be newly married and struggling.
May require pre-marriage certification.
This is an amazing service and an exciting opportunity to expand your practice and income
This Relationship Marriage Prep Package is unique because it's much more than a course. It’s a complete ‘ Everything Done for You’ service to offer to your potential clients right away and it’s compatible with any couples training or certification you have. More than Cate's impressive academic credentials is the skill, experience, and heart Cate brings to her work. She is dedicated to a neglected but large niche audience who badly need tools to get their marriages or relationship commitments off to a strong start. And now you can be poised to deliver this valuable service to your couples and extend its reach.
Ellyn Bader
Co-Founder and Director
This is an amazing service and an exciting opportunity to expand your practice and income
This Relationship Marriage Prep Package is unique because it's much more than a course. It’s a complete ‘ Everything Done for You’ service to offer to your potential clients right away and it’s compatible with any couples training or certification you have.
More important than Cate's impressive academic credentials is the skill, experience, and heart Cate brings to her work. She is dedicated to a neglected but large niche audience who badly need tools to get their marriages or relationship commitments off to a strong start. And now you can be poised to deliver this valuable service to your couples and extend its reach.
Cate has specialised in couples therapy for 25 years and is also an experienced trainer and supervisor.
She has been running Relationship Marriage Preparation courses for 21 years and created her own course 15 years ago. She has delivered this 100's of times, so this course has been tested, refined and tested again in the arena where it most counts.
Most group courses are run by laypeople or clergy. Being a couples therapist gives you a huge advantage over other facilitators and puts you in a strong position because:
Most couples prefer a one-on-one course, with an experienced couple’s therapist.
The pre-assessment questionnaire allows you to focus on interventions most needed in your couple's unique relationship.
Because you are a therapist, your marriage prep clients can come back to you for counselling whenever they need it, for life!
This course applies to all couples regardless of religion, sexual orientation or culture.
I have successfully used this course for over a year now and I have extended to teaching a Part 1 and 2 of the Course for some couples i.e. 5-6 hours of skills intensive for couples in the early years of their relationship commitment.
It’s so fantastic! I love the thoroughness of all the areas you covered Cate, it just really gives the couple a good overview of what they need to be thinking about.
I have also just had a request for a review course with a couple I delivered the course to last year - I am delighted that I purchased a corporate package of this valuable course for all my employee therapists to use.. It has expanded our market and provided a much-needed service.
Ellyn Bader
Co-Founder and Director
This is an amazing service and an exciting opportunity to expand your practice and income
This Relationship Marriage Prep Package is unique because it's much more than a course. It’s a complete ‘ Everything Done for You’ service to offer to your potential clients right away and it’s compatible with any couples training or certification you have.
More important than Cate's impressive academic credentials is the skill, experience, and heart Cate brings to her work. She is dedicated to a neglected but large niche audience who badly need tools to get their marriages or relationship commitments off to a strong start. And now you can be poised to deliver this valuable service to your couples and extend its reach.
I love Cate’s Marriage Prep course package! Not only does it include a comprehensive questionnaire that goes through important topics, but you also get the Cate’s well written and concise ‘keepsake’ handouts to give to your couple to reinforce your course.
I think it’s a beautiful resource for couples of all kinds and an immense value for the therapist and the many couples they will share it with. You can also tailor it to your own style.
Cate’s templates are real time savers for the therapist, and her course instructions were easy to follow and convey confidently to my pre-marriage couples.
I have known Cate Heffernan professionally for many years and over this time I have learned a lot from her about the art of working with couples.
Cate has now condensed her skills and wisdom into an exciting Relationship and Marriage Preparation package so that you can offer a 3-hour course to couples who want to reflect upon and strengthen their relationship.
Everything is included in Cate's course including templates, handouts and guidelines so all you have to do is focus on helping your couples get their lives together off to a great start!
I was delighted when I received my materials and experienced how simple it was to prepare to meet with my first clients.
The Assessment was thorough and quickly highlighted the specific areas that my couple needed to focus on. This is an excellent investment both in my practice and in helping couples get off to a good start early in their relationship commitment.
I want to thank Cate for making her years of experience available and I look forward to helping many couples build their relationships on a more solid foundation.
Ellyn Bader
Co-Founder and Director
This is an amazing service and an exciting opportunity to expand your practice and income
This Relationship Marriage Prep Package is unique because it's much more than a course. It’s a complete ‘ Everything Done for You’ service to offer to your potential clients right away and it’s compatible with any couples training or certification you have.
More important than Cate's impressive academic credentials is the skill, experience, and heart Cate brings to her work. She is dedicated to a neglected but large niche audience who badly need tools to get their marriages or relationship commitments off to a strong start. And now you can be poised to deliver this valuable service to your couples and extend its reach.
A complete 'done for you end to end service'
ONLY €529
- Includes the unique 80-question questionnaire, PLUS an additional bonus - pages of advertising bullet points (WHICH SAVES YOU HEAPS OF WORK).
REMEMBER YOU'll RECOUP YOUR COSTS IN A COUPLE OF BOOKINGS!
THIS IS INCREDIBLE VALUE.
1. About the Course-
plus business opportunities
2, The Contents- Explained. Plus, how to use and in what order
3. Delivering the Course - Adapt your existing skills with a few tweaks here and there
plus interventions that keep you on track and help your couple get the most from this experience
4. Assessment and working from the 13 sections in the Questionnaire.
Plus training aid tables and pages of bullet points to help you advertise this course
Course Information for your website and to promote the course to your clients in person or by phone.
A Letter of Instruction
and booking confirmation, your price structure, cancellation policy, and everything the couple need to know.
The Questionnaire
- A core part of the course.
A Certificate of Completion
– For those who require pre-marriage certification.
A strategically sequenced framework that guides your 3-hour session providing a structure for your time together.
It's also your pre-course assessment tool. You receive the completed questionnaires back from your couple to assess before you meet them.
They are integral to this training.
They provide all the educational pieces you need to include in your course.
Specifically designed and tailored for this client group.
Written in user-friendly terms for clients (and you) to digest easily.
There is abundant material to support the 3-hour format and ample material to support an extended format (i.e. a 2/3 hour Part 2 course).
And a "Keepsake" Takeaway Toolkit for Your Clients
PLUS 2 + PAGES OF BULLET POINTS TO HELP YOU ADVERTISE AND PROMOTE THIS SERVICE - WHICH SAVES YOU HEAPS OF TIME AND STRESS
Includes:
New video training
New toolkit with handouts
New training sections and training aids
4 auto-fill Templates for communicating with your clients
BONUS - Advertising bullet points!
The unique, strategically designed Questionnaire
REMEMBER YOU'll RECOUP YOUR COSTS IN A COUPLE OF BOOKINGS!
THIS IS INCREDIBLE VALUE.
I love Cate’s Marriage Prep course package! Not only does it include a comprehensive questionnaire that goes through important topics, but you also get the Cate’s well written and concise ‘keepsake’ handouts to give to your couple to reinforce your course.
I think it’s a beautiful resource for couples of all kinds and an immense value for the therapist and the many couples they will share it with. You can also tailor it to your own style and teaching moments during the course.
Cate’s templates are real time savers for the therapist, and her course instructions were easy to follow and convey confidently to my pre-marriage couples.
I was delighted when I received my materials and experienced how simple it was to prepare to meet with my first clients.
The Assessment was thorough and quickly highlighted the specific areas that my couple needed to focus on. This is an excellent investment both in my practice and in helping couples get off to a good start early in their relationship commitment.
I want to thank Cate for making her years of experience available and I look forward to helping many couples build their relationships on a more solid foundation.
Had my first couple and it went really well. I just went through it all.
It’s so fantastic! I love the thoroughness of all the areas you covered Cate, it just really gives the couple a good overview of what they need to be thinking about.
I loved it and I’m definitely all in to purchase it and make use of it at our Centre. I think it could expand our market and provide a much-needed service.
Nancy St. John, MIACP
I have known Cate Heffernan professionally for many years and over this time I have learned a lot from her about the art of working with couples.
Cate has now condensed her skills and wisdom into an exciting Relationship and Marriage Preparation package so that you can offer a 3-hour course to couples who want to reflect upon and strengthen their relationship.
Everything is included in Cate's course including templates, handouts and guidelines so all you have to do is focus on helping your couples get their lives together off to a great start!
Thank you so much, Cate, for making your "grab and go" Marriage Prep course available.
It provides a simple, yet structured and thorough way to guide couples in creating a strong foundation for their future relationship.
I am excited to add this program to the services offered in my practice. And I recommend it highly to any couples therapists wanting to help couples in some new ways
2022
I just want to add that I have successfully used this course for over a year now and I have extended to teaching a Part 1 and 2 of the Course for some couples i.e. 5-6 hours of skills intensive for couples in the early years of their relationship commitment.
This gives me more time to focus on skills and guidelines for any trauma areas that need more focused attention in some couples.
I have also just had a request for a review course with a couple I delivered the course to last year - I am delighted that I purchased a corporate package of this valuable course for all my employee therapists to use.
It all began with her failed marriage.......
We had everything except for the skills to cope with the challenges that came after the honeymoon stage. No guidelines on how to transition into a healthy mature relationship. Three beautiful children and 13 years later we separated, with sadness, grief, anger, and shame. Where did it all go wrong? Well, it began with my parent's poor marriage and ultimate divorce. For my ex-husband, it began with being sent abroad to boarding school aged 6, before he could tie his shoelaces.
If only someone had given us a road map as young adults, taught us what we hadn’t learned growing up, and continued to be just an appointment away when needed. We could have been prepared for the inevitable relationship pitfalls and given our children more relationship stability to pass on to their children...our grandchildren.
My passion for helping couples was borne from this failed marriage and my quest to understand where and how things went wrong. The answers came through my own counsellng experience. One penny after another dropped. What I discovered made so much sense and it wasn’t rocket science! But I had to learn what makes a good relationship because as much as I loved my parents, their marriage failed after 6 children ..so how was I to know?
Early on in my career as a couples counsellor I particularly wanted to give young couples starting on their journey of commitment focused skills and relationship guidelines to give them a fighting chance to succeed. Especially those, like me, who didn’t learn the skills from their parents or at school.
And more than that: I wanted them to know and feel they always had a safe place to come back to whenever they needed help. This course is usually their first experience in relationship counselling. It’s important to make a warm, insightful connection leaving them with the memorable experience of learning skills and insights that personally helped their unique relationship. Your experience as a couple’s counsellor and knowledge of couples dynamics helps you pick up potential issues as you read through their answers on the strategically structured questionaries before you meet...and more as you get to know them on the course. This is why I am only recommending this course to those with some training in couples work because they have the perfect edge for running this course.
One thing I have learned is my marriage prep clients are loyal. They are a stable part of my couples therapy practise, they helped build my reputation, are a great referral source and they come back whenever they need help.
The reason I want to share my story with you is to help you understand why this Relationship/Marriage Prep Course is close to my heart. And why I am passionate about passing this on to you to extend its reach.
“This is a great course and helped us to understand each other more and connect on a deeper level- I highly recommend it!”
“This course is a must as most of us don't really have a healthy guide on how to develop ourselves and our relationships. It's the key to start working on your relationship early and with the right tools”
“Whether you are getting married, thinking about getting married, or if you're married already, this course will benefit you. It helps bring up conversation pieces that every couple needs to discuss”
“It really helped us to decide on how to incorporate the positive while avoiding the negative in our pasts. Both our parents had issues that impacted on us as individuals. It was good to talk about this and to think about what we didn't want to bring into our relationship from our families of origin"
“What a great bargain as an investment in your future relationship. Have your eyes opened and learn what's needed to build a strong relationship” “with the right tools”
“This is a great marriage preparation course. It's practical, insightful, and most of all, relevant. If you are looking to lay the long-term foundations for a happy marriage, I would highly recommend doing this”
Yes, the video and written training cover this. I have designed this course especially for those with training in couples work to use and implement. Your training stands you in good stead for working with marriage prep clients. You'll know what contributes to relationship breakdown and can teach your couples skills to avoid these pitfalls. The questionnaire provides you with a means of pre-assessment and is a core structure to follow to keep you on track. If you have further questions just email me, I am here to help.
If you have had training in couples dynamics, then yes you are. If you have some training but not much experience working with couples, this is a good place to start. Follow the guidelines I've given you and use the structure of the questionnaires to keep you on track. Keep the sessions warm and focus on teaching skills in areas that seem most significant to them.
My guidelines, suggested interventions and links to resources are useful for marriage preps and are there to assist you. Integrate your own style and professional expertise to help raise their awareness and guide your couple where they most need it.
You can give the individual PDF handouts to your regular clients. The one doc toolkit is exclusively for clients who complete this course with you.
Yes you can if they are in the early stages of a committed relationship, engaged or newlywed. What I say is "now that I know you both a bit better I think you would benefit from doing my Relationship/ Marriage Prep Course because ...."
Only the purchaser is authorized to use this course. If more than one professional in your organisation wants to use this product with clients, please click here and fill out the corporate package form to purchase the cost-saving corporate packages and then email it to me.
I read them through and make notes of anything particular that stands out. I particularly note each of their limitations, anything they find hard to talk to each other about, any unresolved issues for example how did they resolve their first major argument? How comfortable are they doing things apart? Sometimes they will only give you very brief answers, but as you go through more answers on the questionnaires more of their dynamic unfolds. They are generally motivated, eager to learn, and open up as they relax into the session...
Not necessarily. You can also paraphrase their answers or paraphrase a whole section then invite open discussion on that section. Some of the questions elicit similar answers by design. This is to help them relax into developing their responses as they move through the questionnaire. Some people give very full answers to start with, or your discussion may elicit a full response. This can mean questions further down have already been covered so you can skip by these. Don't worry if you don't cover everything. The handouts and links complete the course and back up the relationship sections included in the questionnaire.
If you have had some training in couples dynamics then you could deliver this course. In fact, this is a great place to start honing your skills. If you want further training to increase your confidence and understanding of couples. I would highly recommend doing the level 1 online training in the Bader Pearson Developmental Model of Couples Therapy. You can do this at your own pace.
If you are working with an agency then check with them on their policy around keeping client notes. If you have your own practice then you can keep them in a safe place. This is a good time to let your couple know that you will be there for them if ever they need help in the future. Give them the option. I say “I normally keep the marriage prep questionnaires because many couples do come back for ongoing help periodically....it could be years later.” Ask them if they are ok with that? I assure them they never leave my safekeeping and that no information is shared with 3rd parties.
A typical fee for this service is your hourly rate for couples therapy x 3 for 3 hours. Plus more for your pre-assessment time (approx 45 mins). If I agree to do a Part 1 and Part 2 of the course from the get-go - this is the same in working hours as a couples intensive. I charge more for this. Check what the going rates are in your area.
Go to Paula's website below as an example of how she markets this course in New Zealand.
https://www.couplestherapynz.com/relationship-groundwork-course/
Yes, you can. But remember, this is primarily a skills psycho-education course designed to explore how the couple is managing each area of their relationship now and offering them tools, skills and guidelines where most needed.
You can offer them a part two marriage/prep course and tailor this to either
more psycho-education, go through the handouts and resource links in more depth to reinforce the skills needed for lasting relationships. There is more guidance plus extra resource links to support you in delivering Part 2 in the training sections.
A mini intensive where you go deeper into issues that need more focus
You could offer them regular counselling sessions.
You could also offer them an annual or periodic booster or relationship enhancement course.
Use your imagination - this course is versatile and can be easily adapted
Be clear about what you are offering if they return for further help.
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It's also an excellent foundation for a 6-hour Couples Skills Intensive Course
This is yours forever! You will recoup the cost just a couple of bookings...or less!
Marriage prep clients are quick to refer you to others, help build your reputation, and are your future clients
You can offer a part two of this course, or periodic follow up booster courses, or regular counselling as and when required
Imagine what might happen when word gets around this large niche market about this unique opportunity
Imagine the pleasure of working with these refreshing couples who are motivated and eager to learn
Imagine the long term impact on your business when these loyal clients rave about you to others and come back to you for any future help they need
Imagine what might happen when word gets around this large niche market about this unique opportunity
Imagine the pleasure of working with these refreshing couples who are motivated and eager to learn
Imagine the long term impact on your business when these loyal clients rave about you to others and come back to you for any future help they need
So if you want to work with motivated clients, increase your income, and develop a steady stream of referrals, this marriage/relationship preparation course is one of the quickest and most enjoyable ways to get there.
Click below to change your practice and take an early lead in establishing yourself as a forerunner in your community
Includes:
New video training
New toolkit with handouts
New training sections and training aids
BONUS - Advertising bullet points!
The unique multifunctional Questionnaire
4 autofill templates for communicating with clients